Dos and Don’ts When Giving Financial Advice to Young People

Listicles serve the ostensible purpose of briefly taking your mind off your problems, but as with so many other kinds of Internet content, your impulse is to click on things that remind you of your current problems, and when you do this, the algorithms reward you handsomely for it. Even though “how to” content is perennially popular, the algorithms keep showing you listicles that imply that it is someone else’s responsibility, not yours, to solve your problems. For example, if you have an adult son or daughter, your child is probably financially strapped, and you are probably stressed out about it, so you click on listicles that feed your confirmation bias about how Generation Z are socially inept and lack resilience. Of course, this flight of fancy is only distracting you from your financial problems, which is why you are scrolling on your phone in the first place. A more mature response to this problem would be to look at the big picture and realize that our current financial crisis is not specific to just one generation. The best way to help your kids get out of debt is to lead by example, and the first step toward doing that is to contact a Philadelphia debt relief lawyer.

Share Your Current Challenges Instead of Offering Exemplary Stories From a Past That No Longer Exists

When you are trying to show the younger generation that you can relate to their struggles, it can be tempting to tell them about similar problems that you faced when you were their age. Only some aspects of your story will match up, though. The emotional contours of a quarter life crisis probably match up no matter in which generation the quarter life crisis happened, but the economic conditions were different. When you were in your late 20s, salaried jobs with retirement benefits were plentiful compared to how they are now, and all the items on your budget cost less, in proportion to your income, than what your kids pay today.

Instead of sharing your parables from a bygone time, pretend that your kids are your coworkers and that you are engaging in the legally protected activity of talking about your financial situation. Tell them about how much you would love to help them by taking money out of your retirement account, but you would have to pay penalties, unless you are using the early withdrawn money to buy long-term care insurance, which you just might do, so you can ease the financial burden on your kids. Advise them to consolidate their debt or settle their debts for a lesser amount, to transfer a credit card balance if the option is available. Talk about when you did these things recently, not in the old days when the grass was greener.

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